Stratton Strawless churchyard

NORFOLK EPITAPHS

Amended Jan 2010

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Why do we want to record memorial inscriptions? It has been estimated from past experience that approximately one third of the inscriptions visible at any one time will not be readable in seventy years time. It follows that some will be only partially readable now which is why I have been collecting examples of texts and verses in the hope that this will be useful in suggesting likely missing words when they are encountered.

This site is made available as a resource for persons wanting to record memorial inscriptions anywhere in the English speaking world, and is a by-product of surveys conducted in Norfolk and submitted to NAOMI . You will find lists of verses and other texts which have been found on gravestones in Norfolk, England.
For records of individual inscriptions visitors should contact the churchwarden for the church in question or the relevant Family History Society or NAOMI, see contacts page.

A summary of the surveys used to compile these lists is at sources page. Here are links to some completed surveys.

For some limited information about Nonconformist and free churches and burial sites see the freechurches page.
if you need to know in which Hundred a particular parish was located use the Hundreds page.

Some guidance on the recording of inscriptions based on practical experience is shown at how to record
Copyright? Given that inscriptions are often taken from books or leaflets in which possible inscriptions are made available for use and that they are then displayed on stone in public places, I tend to disagree that I have ownership of the copyright. All I would ask is that if you publish information found on this site, there is no need to seek permission, but please mention where you found it.

Also: What happened on your Birthday? See Calendar of Norfolk events.

Listed below are a few samples of inscriptions which were found to be quoted from well known sources.

At Stow Bedon, Norfolk on a headstone in the churchyard
In
loving memory of
James FLETCHER
who died April 8th
1896
aged 67 years
late of the Royal Artillery
When I am dead my dearest
Sing no sad songs for me
Plant thou no laurels at my head
Nor dainty cypress tree
Be the green grass above me
With showers and dew drops wet
And if thou wilt remember
And if thou wilt forget.

[A song by Christina Rosetti]

At Northwold, Norfolk on a tomb in the churchyard
Sacred
to the memory of
Louisa the daughter of
Thomas and Susan ROAN
who died October 19th 1820
aged 20 years
Bright be the place of the soul
No lovelier spirit than thine
Ever burst from its mortal control
In the orb of the blessed to shine
On Earth thou was all we could wish
As thy soul shall immortally be
And our sorrow may cease to repine
When we know that thy God is with thee.

["Bright be the place of thy soul" from "Hebrew Melodies" by Lord Byron]

At church side cemetery. Downham Market, Norfolk on the west side of a Celtic cross
In loving memory of
Henry William TURNER
who died October 5th
1914
aged 74 years
God's finger touched him and he slept.

[Alfred Lord Tennyson]

At Churchside cemetery, Downham Market, Norfolk on a headstone
In loving memory of
Matthew GARNER
who departed
this life 14th July 1913
aged 71 years [burial register says from Salters Lodge]
In that great cloistered stillness and seclusion
By guardian angels led
Safe from temptation safe from sin's pollution
He lives whom we call dead.
["Resignation" by Henry Wadsworth Longfellow]

At Kingsway Cemetery, Downham Market, Norfolk on the north east side of a cross set in a boulder
Constance Emily
second daughter of
Thomas Lancelot
and Catherine REED
died October 24 AD 1881
aged 10 years
O Blessed Lord whose mercy then removed
A child whom every eye that looked on loved
Support us, teach us, calmly to resign
What we possessed and now is wholly thine.

["Six months to six years added he remains" by W Wordsworth]

At South Pickenham, Norfolk on a headstone in the churchyard
To the glory of God and
in loving memory of
Piers Roger
MORETON
June 3rd 1946 June 30th 1967
Goodnight sweet prince
and the flights of angels
sing thee to thy rest.

[From "Hamlet" last lines of the play by William Shakespeare]

[At Denver St Mary on a headstone now laid flat]
Susan
the beloved wife of
 James BEAZLEY
who died June 20th
1885/ aged 43 years
Like crowded forest trees we stand
And some are marked to fall
The axe will strike at God’s command
And soon will strike us all

[William Cowper 1787]

At Hevingham, Norfolk on a headstone in the churchyard
In memory of
Elizabeth
the wife of
Thomas SMITH
who died I of April 1782
aged 31 years
Stop reader let this solemn truth
Your weary heart and soul engage
A worm is in the bud of youth
As well as at the root of age
.
[Based on “Read ye that run, the solemn truth/ With which I charge my page/ A worm is in the bud of youth/ And at the root of age” William Cowper 1787]

At Swaffham, Norfolk on a headstone in the churchyard
Beneath
are deposited the
remains of
George RAVEN
who died Oct 25th
1834
aged 64 years
Oh! Thou Being of beings, source of all
entity have mercy
upon me thou Great Being.

[Something similar in original Latin, appears on the tomb of the Second Duke of Buckingham buried at Westminster Abbey 1687, but it may be traceable as far back as Aristotle.
Or was it used by Freemasons?]

Mentions of some interesting people.

At West Dereham
In
loving memory of
Emanuel GAMINARA
born at Genoa 1794
died at Downham Mkt [21 Dec] 1892
He was a soldier in the 2nd
Imperial Guards under the great
Napoleon and was also one of
the grand army who survived
the terrible retreat from Moscow


At Hilgay
Here lies the body of
George William MANBY
Captain Royal Navy
born 1766 died 1854
inventor of an ap
paratus for saving
life in shipwreck
grant him Lord
eternal rest.
[He used rockets to fire ropes from the rescue
vessel to the sinking vessel]

[Brass plate beneath south window] In affectionate remembrance of/ Fairman Joseph MANN/ resident in this parish for 50 years/ who died January 26th 1913 aged 75 years

At Shropham
[Headstone and kerb]
In
affectionate memory
of
Fairman Joseph MANN
who died
January 26th 1913
aged 75 years
I will lay me down in peace and
take my rest
[plaque in kerb]
 In
loving memory of
Mary E MANN
born August 14th 1848
died May 19th 1929
We bring our years to an
end as it were a tale that
is told
[She wrote of the lives of late 19thC farmers.]


For no particular reason, other than the fact that there is room here to show it:

Elegy Written in a Country Churchyard

The Curfew tolls the knell of parting day,
The lowing herd winds slowly o'er the lea,
The ploughman homeward plods his weary way,
And leaves the world to darkness and to me.

Now fades the glimmering landscape on the sight,
And all the air a solemn stillness holds,
Save where the beetle wheels his droning flight,
And drowsy tinklings lull the distant folds.

Save that from yonder ivy-mantled tower,
The moping owl does to the moon complain,
Of such as wand'ring near her secret bower,
Molest her ancient solitary reign.

Beneath those rugged elms, that yew-tree's shade,
Where heaves the turf in many a mould'ring heap,
Each in his narrow cell for ever laid,
The rude forefathers of the hamlet sleep.

The breezy call of incense-breathing morn,
The swallow twittering from the straw-built shed,
The cock's shrill clarion, and the echoing horn,
No more shall rouse them from their lowly bed.

For them no more the blazing hearth shall burn,
Or busy housewife ply her evening care,
No children run to lisp their Sire's return,
Nor climb his knees the envied kiss to share.

Oft did the harvest to their sickle yield,
Their furrow oft the stubborn glebe has broke,
How jocund did they drive their team afield,
How bowed the woods beneath their sturdy stoke!

Let not ambition mock their useful toil,
Their homely joys and destiny obscure,
Nor grandeur hear with a disdainful smile,
The short and simple annals of the poor.

The boast of heraldry, the pomp of power,
And all that beauty, all that wealth e'er gave,
Awaits alike th'inevitable hour,
The paths of glory lead but to the grave.

Nor you, ye proud, impute to these the fault,
If mem'ry o'er their tomb no trophies raise,
Where, through the long-drawn aisle and fretted vault,
The pealing anthem swells the note of praise.

Can storied urn, or animated bust,
Back to its mansion call the fleeting breath?
Can honour's voice provoke the silent dust,
Or flattery soothe the dull cold ear of death?

Perhaps in this neglected spot is laid,
Some heart once pregnant with celestial fire,
Hands, that the rod of empire might have sway'd,
Or waked to ecstasy the living lyre.

But knowledge to their eyes her ample page,
Rich with the spoils of time did ne'er unroll,
Chill penury repress'd their noble rage,
And froze the genial current of the soul.

Full many a gem of purest ray serene,
The dark unfathom'd caves of ocean bear,
Full many a flower is born to blush unseen,
And waste its sweetness on the desert air.

Some village Hampden, that with dauntless breast,
The little tyrant of his fields withstood,
Some mute inglorious Milton here may rest,
Some Cromwell, guiltless of his country's blood.

Th' applause of list'ning senates to command,
The treats of pain and ruin to despise,
To scatter plenty o'er a smiling land,
And read their hist'ry in a nation's eyes.

Their lot forbad: nor circumscribed alone,
Their growing virtues, but their crimes confined:
Forbad to wade through slaughter to a throne,
Or shut the gates of mercy on mankind.

The struggling pangs of conscious truth to hide,
To quench the blushes of ingenious shame,
Or heap the shrine of luxury and pride,
With incense, kindled at the muse's flame.

Far from the madding crowd's ignoble strife,
Their sober wishes never learn'd to stray;
Along the cool sequester'd vale of life,
They kept the noiseless tenour of their way.

Yet ev'n these bones from insult to protect,
Some frail memories still erected nigh,
With uncouth rhymes and shapeless sculpture deck'd,
Implores the passing tribute of a sigh.

Their name, their years, spelt by th' unletter'd muse,
The place of fame and epitaph supply;
And many a holy text around she strews,
That teach the rustic moralists to die.

For who to dumb forgetfulness a prey,
This pleasing anxious being e'er resing'd,
Left the warm precincts of the cheerful day,
Nor cast one longing ling'ring look behind?

On some fond breast the parting soul relies,
Some pious drops the closing eye requires;
Even from the tomb the voice of nature cries,
Even in our ashes live their wonted fires.

For thee, who mindful of th' unhonour'd dead,
Dost in these lines their artless tale relate:
If chance, by lonely contemplation led,
Some kindred spirit shall enquire thy fate.

Haply some hoary-headed swain may say,
'Oft have we seen him at the peep of dawn',
'Brushing with hasty steps the dews away',
'To meet the sun upon the upland lawn'.

'There, at the foot of yonder nodding beech',
'That wreaths its old fantastic roots so high',
'His listless length at noontide would he stretch',
'And pore upon the brook, that babbles by'.

'Hard by yon wood, now smiling as in scorn',
'Muttering his wayward fancies, would he rove';
'Now drooping, woeful-wan, like one forelorn',
'Or crazed with care, or cross'd in hopeless love'.

'One morn I miss'd him from the custom'd hill',
'Along the heath, and near his fav'rite tree';
'Another came; nor yet beside the rill',
'Nor up the lawn, nor at the wood was he'.

'The next with dirges due in sad array,'
'Slow through the churchway path we saw him borne',
'Approach and read, for thou cans't read, the lay',
'Graved on the stone beneath yon aged thorn'.



The Epitaph
Here rests his head upon the lap of earth,
A youth, to fortune and to fame unknown;
Fair science frown'd not on his humble birth,
And melancholy mark'd him for her own.

Large was his bounty, and his soul sincere;
Heav'n did a recompense as largely send:
He gave to mis'ry all he had, a tear,
He gain'd from heav'n ('twas all he wish'd) a friend.

No farther seek his merits to disclose,
Or draw his frailties from their dread abode,
(There they alike in trembling hope repose),
The bosom of his father, and his God.
By Thomas Gray (1716-71).